6 Questions to Ask Before You Invite Someone to Your Wedding

6 Questions to Ask Before You Invite Someone to Your Wedding

So, we are in a time where couples are having to cut down on their guest list. This is necessary as a safety precaution and is mandated by the government. There is also the fact that it is easier to practice social distancing with a smaller number of people.
As a couple planning your wedding, you have to start the right way. There is no need for you to make a huge list that you’ll have to cut down on. How about having your wedding with a concise and safe guest list? That way you won’t risk the health of your loved ones and avoid breaking safety rules.
If you’re onboard with this, the next thing to decide on would be who gets to make your list and who doesn’t. The following questions will set you on the right path. Sit down with your partner and make a list. Then make sure you have answers to all these questions as streamline the list.

Have I Met This Person Before?

As funny as it sounds, couples frequently meet new people at their own wedding. They could be distant relatives of associates of people that they have invited. The decision is strictly up to you though and you are under no obligation to invite a coworker to your friend who you’ve never met before. So, if they are a stranger suggested by someone you know and you need to reduce your guest list, start with them.

When Was the Last Time I Saw This Person?

If you haven’t seen them in the last 12- 18 months and they aren’t that close, you probably shouldn’t invite them. They’ll understand that you are having to be careful because of the pandemic.

Did I Attend Their Wedding?

If you were at their wedding years ago and have lost contact, you may not need to invite them. But if they invited you for their wedding recently, courtesy demands that you extend an invite. This is especially important if they’re a family member.

Do I Spend Holidays and Birthdays with Them?

If you see them at the big events in your life and theirs, they should be included in your wedding. Just remember to confirm that they are healthy enough to attend and haven’t been compromised. Make adequate use of your RSVPs.

Are We Inviting the Rest of Their Family?

If you have 3 cousins and you’re close to 2, you should invite all 3. For the sake of peace. Where you find that inviting all three would be a problem, we’d say maybe don’t invite any at all. You don’t want to cause a rift between family.

Am I Comfortable Being Around This Person?

Your wedding should be a fun experience for you. Try not to invite too many people that you cannot be yourself in front of. This could include your boss and other authority figures in your life. Everyone there to celebrate with you at this point should be someone you can let down your hair in front of and have lots of fun. Best of luck!!!

Comments 16

  1. December 10, 2020

    I like this post, enjoyed this one thankyou for posting . Chrysler Cecilio Autumn

  2. December 14, 2020

    Way cool! Some extremely valid points! I appreciate you penning this post and the rest of the website is extremely good. Margaux Garrick Rey

  3. December 17, 2020

    I enjoy reading through and I believe this website got some genuinely utilitarian stuff on it! . Linet Karlik Schweiker

  4. December 17, 2020

    He also has a supply of fresh, felt tipped pens because Kelly goes through an average of two after each practice. Yolande Berton Abel

  5. December 18, 2020

    I was examining some of your posts on this website and I think this web site is rattling instructive! Retain putting up. Marielle Orren Jerz

  6. December 18, 2020

    I have read so many articles or reviews regarding the blogger lovers however this post is really a nice paragraph, keep it up. Carita Miguel Fried

  7. December 18, 2020

    Real nice design and style and wonderful content , nothing else we require : D. Cris Braden Lauryn

  8. December 18, 2020

    Some truly quality posts on this site, saved to fav. Catharine Patty Mashe

  9. December 18, 2020

    I like it when individuals come together and share views. Great site, stick with it. Marcelia Hewe Kacie

  10. December 19, 2020

    My relatives all the time say that I am killing my time here at net, but I know I am getting knowledge all the time by reading thes pleasant content. Tarra Gabby Lightman

  11. December 20, 2020

    Great, thanks for sharing this blog. Really thank you! Cool. Damaris Skipton Bronder

  12. December 20, 2020

    This post gives clear idea in favor of the new users of blogging, that genuinely how to do blogging. Jayme Amos Felise

  13. December 20, 2020

    Greate article. Keep writing such kind of info on your page. Im really impressed by your site. Selia Gallagher Barden

  14. December 20, 2020

    I got what you intend,bookmarked , very nice site. Thomasina Frank Imalda

  15. December 21, 2020

    Howdy! This is kind of off topic but I need some guidance from an established blog. Margery Bran Huebner

  16. December 21, 2020

    Some truly nice and useful info on this site, as well I believe the style and design holds superb features. Cynde Johnnie Juanne

Write a comment